Mariage

[Bisounours]

Faute, aaaaaarg

[Miss Liberty]

MissLib, tu vouvoies Jim16 maintenant ?

Tu étais inclus dans les destinataires.

[SCBastiat]

Oh, ça va, hein, calmez-vous, je répondais uniquement à SCBastiat, qui parle de "quand la femme veut divorcer". Je lui réponds qu'en France, dans le cadre ultra majoritaire du divorce par consentement mutuel, ça ne veut rien dire.

 

Mais j'ai l'impression qu'on dit la même chose en fait, non ?

Les divorces dits "par consentement mutuel" sur le papier sont presque toujours demandés à la base par une personne aux dépends de l'autre (la femme dans presque 80% des cas). Ca remplace le divorce pour faute qui n'existe plus, à part dans les cas de violences avérées ou autres exceptions.

On semble être d'accord pour dire que c'est une mascarade...

[Bisounours]

Tu étais inclus dans les destinataires.

Ah bon ? Menfin, je ne suis que douceur et compassion, moi  

[Adrian]

11 Years Old, a Mom, and Pushed to Marry Her Rapist in Florida

 

When she was a scrawny 11-year-old, Sherry Johnson found out one day that she was about to be married to a 20-year-old member of her church who had raped her.

“It was forced on me,” she recalls. She had become pregnant, she says, and child welfare authorities were investigating — so her family and church officials decided the simplest way to avoid a messy criminal case was to organize a wedding.

“My mom asked me if I wanted to get married, and I said, ‘I don’t know, what is marriage, how do I act like a wife?’” Johnson remembers today, many years later. “She said, ‘Well, I guess you’re just going to get married.’”

So she was. A government clerk in Tampa, Fla., refused to marry an 11-year-old, even though this was legal in the state, so the wedding party went to nearby Pinellas County, where the clerk issued a marriage license. The license (which I’ve examined) lists her birth date, so officials were aware of her age.

Not surprisingly, the marriage didn’t work out — two-thirds of marriages of underage girls don’t last, one study found — but it did interrupt Johnson’s attendance at elementary school.

In fact, more than 167,000 young people age 17 and under married in 38 states between 2000 and 2010, according to a search of available marriage license data by a group called Unchained at Last, which aims to ban child marriage. The search turned up cases of 12-year-old girls married in Alaska, Louisiana and South Carolina, while other states simply had categories of “14 and younger.”

Unchained at Last was not able to get data for the other states. But it extrapolated that in the entire country, there were almost 250,000 child marriages between 2000 and 2010. Some backing for that estimate comes from the U.S. Census Bureau, which says that at least 57,800 Americans age 15 to 17 reported being in marriages in 2014.

 

 

Mariage des enfants, même aux US.